Actually a marriage starts always from happiness.Couple feeling that they are falling in love with each other & every one say that early marriage life is beautiful.At that time both feeling that they are the perfect match for each other because they don’t know much about their habits and than this early married life replaced by arguments & fights & than they come to know that they cant live under one roof that leads to Divorce & remarriage.The increasing rate of divorce & remarriages in Pakistan is considered a shame because in the past few decades this word is un heard in pakistani Society. basically pakistan is conservative country even if the woman is unhappy not think about divorce because she don’t want that this label attach with her name & personality.Mostly women do compromises due to many reasons e.g financial burden,social pressure & her family not supporting her.She prefer to live a unhappy married life rather to divorced.
So another most important factor in increasing rate of divorce & remarriages is financial independence of women,intolerant attitude.Basically Pakistan is a male dominating society & want their wives to stay at home,look after their children & parents & leave their careers & professional life.Sometimes this situation worse & play a vital role in increasing rate of divorce & remarriages.In my view Marriage is not an important task,commitment is very important thing. Lack of privacy is also the cause of Increasing rate of divorce especially it happens in joint system which cause problems between the couple & leads to divorce.Sometimes divorce have bad impact on your life,your health suffers a lot.Mutual tolerance & compromise can decrease the rate of divorce.
In Pakistan the feeling of superiority also the main cause of divorce & remarriages. There is problem in Asian males that they don’t like female dominance, this can also lead to divorce. We can down the rate of divorce, all causes of divorce should be looked in to & corrected, and that’s the only key to have successful married life. We should not complain about our life partner, we should change ourselves for them this is love & commitment.So just renew your love by discussing your problems & issues with your life partner, Not Divorce but getting remarried is the right Solution!!!!!
Author:
Jia Ahmad
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