love marriage and arranged marriage

love marriage and arranged marriage

Love Marriage Or Arrange Marriage

Now a days every one think that either he or she go for Love marriage or arrange marriage. Actually this is a very sensitive topic, some people want to do love marriage because they think that love marriage is more better than to do arrange marriage. Their point of view is this, that they think before living together in their whole life they should know each other & also meet each other so they come to know about their likes, dislikes & other habits which can’t be possible in arrange marriages in our society. You know we live in Pakistan which is quite a conservative country & where people don’t like that girl & boy meet before marriage, but now trend change even in arrange marriages girl & boy meet with each other, talk every day & this also helps to understand each other but I think the instinct of do love marriage is not full fill by this also.

Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage is become a very important question for everyone, some have the opinion that arrange marriages are more better because in love marriages usually in our society & culture, family don’t support mostly & also do not interfere in the issues of couple.People say that love marriages mostly get failed because  ego problems comes & because of this they do fight.Like before marriage if one from them come,if other one is angry but after marriage you could only think about that & the reason is Ego problem…..

But I say  whether you do love marriage or arrange marriage, if you have understanding & you trust on your life partner than you can face every problem. So if you intend to do love marriage or arrange marriage, believe me just trust on your life partner your life will be beautiful as like you think it could be. Love marriages also have many benefits, main is that you know each other very well  so couple can adjust very fast for each other. According to a research who do marriage by their Parents opinion Or Match Maker tend to feel more love for each other & it grows & grows as time grows. Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage, couple must have a good compatibility rate among them & that requires a  chemistry!!!!

Author

Jia Ahmad